

Walking the streets, discovering the volumes of specialty shops and delights that wait inside, is one of the highlights of this city/country. In the markets, one finds shops filled to the brim with just deserts
(the specialty are baklava and type of small cakes lathered w/ honey along with a quadzillion types of Turkish delights), spices, scarfs, hookas, and so on.
The unique observation made was that men and women do not keep company together, unless they are dating or married.
(and one never sees the daters kiss or hug) You will not see single women congregating with men. A 'dolmus' bus packed with both sexes, which bear the ride in close quarters, but when disembarking, the genders split. The other interesting observation, which was quickly noticed by all of us, is that all our servers - whether it be our maids, waitstaff, drivers, shopkeepers, etc.....are all men. I have yet to find an explanation for this. but such is the landscape. The only place you'll find females working is in the public sector.
The one difficulty
(albeit slight) was that few people actually speak English - so directions, when lost, are not the easiest to acquire. There seems to be a lot of handmotion on our part, (paul's become an expert) in substitution for the lack in vocabulary knowledge. In the whole week here, we probably mastered but 2 words - as the language is not the easiest to sound out.
After trying to conquer the major/massive city of Istanbul
(which is the only one to straddle two continents) we took a short flight south to Izmir, the 3rd largest city. After picking up our car, we headed to the site of Ephesus - a major port
(at one time) and one of the 7 church's listed in Revelation.
(unfortunately, it was here that Rick's c.c, at the admission counter, was stolen and his number used to purchase $1400 worth of goods) It was an Africa hot day to say the least and the Epes site is open air, with a few shrubs for shade. Upon entering the gate, we hired on a local tour guide to take us thru. 5 min. into the guide, we all realized this was a big mistake since we had committed ourselves to a verbal presentation & wander which would last 2 hrs. The heat only took 10 min. to get to us and we trudged along, half listening, the other half trying to find an excuse to cut and run. The history of this place was way too long for our short attention span this hot, medditerian day. Finally about 1hr 15 into the tour, rick told the guide 'the girls' were getting heat stroke and he had to accompany us to the car. End of tour for the 3 of us - Paul kept on. Here is where the full facial sunburn, materialized for me - and for the next week, I was one, slightly disfigured face fried American blond - all photographs of me, were strickly prohibited.
That evening we drove to Cesme, after deciding that Rick's fine selection of hotel
(which took him apprx 2 mon. to find) was not suitable for our 'lifestyle'
(though it was a lovely 4 star all incl). By the 'stop, see, ask' system
(which is not recommended for more than 1 party of the car, as wills become stronger, and clash of wills is bound to happen). Alas, we happened upon a perfect, 5-star, breakie/dinner inclusive resort, which was more than acceptable to all. The 180 view from the chicks room was simply too breathtaking for our basic human language to express. and since this was low season
(for the resort areas) the price tag = very affordable. The beach, was one which could easily be showcased in Conde Nast Mag. The buffet dinners tables, were fancifully positioned around the reflective pool and included 2, tiny, crazy bats that kept the bugs away. The buffet selection put ear to ear grins on everyone's face.
Two nights was enough to regain some of the energy, we expended walking up all those hills in Istanbul. Holly, was a first timer in Europe - though all the walking may prove to be an obstacle for reg. Americans
(as we are only used to walking too/from our cars you know) she was a real trooper and kept good pace with us. Rick is a real task master when it comes to the European walking thing :-), so anyone that travels with us in the future - plan to hoof it.
The food, you ask..., well it was far tastier and the collection of choices, more appealing than I predicted it would be. The breakfast spread was kingly
(my fav. meal) and the best part, for our group of 4, was that pork was never on the menu. Since we don't eat it, having to always inquire whether this or that has pork, is a nuisance. We even had beef pepperoni. The deserts and hot drinks
(which despite the weather, is a fav. beverage for all Turks) were quite satisfying to me - though not agreeable to all.
Our next stop was a drive to Bodrum, an international Aegean seaside resort. The Cesme resort was for the locals yet here we would find accents from around the globe and prices to match. Fortunately, again, we had a fabulous resort,
(selected by the one and only Rick) which tickled us pink when we finally saw our room view and the buffet dinner spread, which faces the open, ocean. Again, the rates were low season - WhoYaa! Our days here consisted of shopping
(to go with the major theme of this trip:-), driving while trying to manage to not knick a scooter, pedestrian, cat or ancient piece of garbage, sun tanning, eating
(lots of that) and reading. Though this is far more, beach-hopping than I normally do on my European vacations - as I am attracted to the history and crowds of people which only the city can satisfy - these 4 days were overwhemingly satisfying and relaxing. We now had about 5 more days, in the Greek islands to look forward too.
Our trip in Turkey, ended too soon
(only 7-day stay). Turkey is an extraordinary country, that requires only the smallest sacrifice to enjoy. The people, sights, foods, shopping, all add up to a favorable and authentically memorable experience. Its unfortunate that the news makes this country out to be exactly the opposite of what it actually. I give this place my highest recommendation - so think about including it in your next European/Asian itinerary!
Till we meet in Greece!...